Ask what they'd love. Then get every detail right.

Send your partner a private link. They answer ten small questions on their phone in about two minutes, and only you can read what they said.

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How it works

What should the room sound like?

Tap one and watch the room change.

Rain on the window

Steady, grey, cosy

Forest stream

Water over stones, light rain

Crackling fireplace

Warm and low

Rain outside, fire inside

Both at once

Soft music

Something slow

Quiet

Just us

One of the ten questions your partner answers.

How it works

You send a private link.

Pick a word only the two of you know. Then send the link by text or email, or print it as a little card.

They answer in about two minutes.

On their phone, with no account and nothing to install. They type your shared word, answer what they like and skip the rest.

Only you can read it.

Their answers are locked on their phone before they're sent, and open only on yours. Anything they'd like you to go easy on comes first.

Ten small questions, asked the way you would.

Every question is written as if you were asking, gently. They can skip any of them, and you can turn off the ones you don't need.

How much do you have in you?

Low is a perfectly good answer.

I want it to feel...

Slow and tender, playful and teasing, or surprise me.

What should the room sound like?

Rain, a forest stream, a fireplace, soft music, or quiet.

What should be waiting for you?

Candles, warm blankets, phones in another room.

Where do you want my hands first?

The spots that need it most, and how firm.

I'm in the mood for...

Tick whatever sounds good. Nothing here is a promise.

Anything you're craving?

One word or a whole paragraph. Both are welcome.

What would help you switch off first?

Dishes done, ten minutes alone, a shower, a snack. I'll handle it.

Anything sore, off-limits, or on your mind?

I'll steer around it. No explaining needed.

One last thing I should know?

Totally fine to leave this empty.

Or leave a card on the counter.

Print your link as a small folded card with a QR code, a short note and a clue for your word. There are eleven line-art designs, black on white, light on ink.

Print it.

Fold it in half, print facing out.

Stand it where they will see it.

Fold it in half and it stands on its own. Leave it by the kettle or on a pillow, wherever they'll see it first.

The clue reminds them of your word without giving it away.

Afterwards, a quiet look back.

When you're ready, note how it went: how prepared you felt, what you covered and what got in the way. Those notes are waiting for you before you ask again.

Kept between the two of you.

What your partner tells you is about as personal as it gets, so PlzYou is built so that no one else can read it, including us.

Answers are encrypted on your partner's phone before they're sent, and can only be opened on your device.

Our server only ever stores the encrypted version.

Your shared word is never stored in readable form.

You enter the shared word to open the answers, and they lock again after 10 minutes without activity.

Each link works once, then expires.

Your partner's page loads no third-party scripts: no analytics, no ads, no trackers.

No AI reads the answers.

You can delete everything, any time.

Read the privacy promise

Make it easy for them to tell you.

Setting up takes a few minutes. Answering takes them about two.

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